“Isn’t she the pretty white girl in copy editing?” said one white colleague to another one day as they were discussing who’d copy-edited some materials for a client meeting.
“No, she’s black,” said the colleague, who also happened to be a friend and found it hilarious that someone else had mistaken me for white.
Of course, when she relayed this exchange to me, I was so flattered that the other co-worker considered me pretty.
“Awe, that is so sweet!” I explained.
“Yes, but I was amused that she thought you were white,” said my friend, and we both giggled.
“What else is new?” I said.
And I wondered aloud how many other co-workers were under the same assumption. I’d been working there for a few years and assumed everyone had either figured out my race or been clued in by someone else.
“Perhaps people think I’m Puerto Rican?” I asked.
“Or Grecian (a reference to another story of my mistaken identity as a teenager)!” said my friend.
“Or Russian?” I said.
“Or Filipino? she said.
We went on and on to the point where we developed the church giggles in my cube.